Fighting again?Understand it before you speak.
Attune is an app for couples. After a fight, you answer a few quick questions and get a reading of what happened, a line to start the conversation and a practical task. Each on your own phone, in your own time.
Get Attune for the two of usSound familiar?
The fight isn't about the dishes. But somehow it always ends up being about the dishes.
"You never listen to me."
And on the other side, someone who feels all they ever hear is complaints."Just forget it."
The silence that avoids a fight today and stores up the hurt for tomorrow."This again?"
The same topic coming back, with less patience every time.In the heat of the moment, it's hard to know what you're feeling, what you need and how to say it without making things worse. Attune creates that space between the fight and the conversation.
How it works
Three minutes between the fight and the conversation.
Tell it what happened
Tap the options that best match the moment. If you want, vent in writing — that text stays on your phone only.
Understand what's behind it
Get a reading of the type of conflict, what you feel and how you reacted. If emotions are running high, the app suggests a break before you talk.
Talk with a path forward
Use the suggested line to open the conversation, do the small task of the day or send your partner an invitation to talk.
Made for two
Each on your own phone. Both in the same space.
Whoever buys creates the couple's space and gets a code. Their partner joins with that code at no extra cost. And if your partner doesn't want to use it, everything works for one person too.
Everything in the app
Not just for the days you fight.
Guided conflict reading
8 common topics, 6 emotions and 4 needs, combined into a reading made for your moment.
Daily challenge
One small gesture a day to stay connected, with a streak counter.
Questions for couples
Three decks: just for fun, going deeper and dreaming together.
7 days to reconnect
A short path, one exercise a day, and each of you sees the other's progress.
Private journal
Your readings and tasks are saved so you can see how your relationship is evolving.
Installs like an app
Works in the browser and goes on your iPhone or Android home screen, no app store needed.
Being honest with you
Attune helps with everyday conflicts, but it isn't therapy and it doesn't replace a professional. If the same fights keep coming back, couples therapy can help a lot — and the app can be a good companion between sessions.
It's also not meant for relationships with violence, threats or control. In those cases, the app shows where to find specialized help.
Access for both of you
One purchase. Two people. A lot less "just forget it".
Your access arrives by email right after you buy. Create your space, send the code to your partner and you're set. Want to go deeper? Add the e-book with what relationship science has discovered.
refund
If it doesn't feel right for you, ask for a refund within 7 days. No questions asked.
Access for both of you
- Access for you and your partner, each on your own phone
- Guided conflict reading, whenever you need it
- Daily check-in and couple sync
- Challenges, questions and a 7-day path
- Private journal and listening guide
Everything in the app, plus the complete guide
- Everything in the app
- E-book Fight Without Losing Each Other: 12 chapters on what the world's leading couples experts teach
- Practical exercises to do together
- 30 questions to bring you closer
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FAQ
Before you start
Do we need to buy two accesses?
No. Whoever buys creates the couple's space and gets a code. Their partner creates an account with any email and joins with that code, at no cost.
Will my partner see what I write?
No. What you vent and your journal are stored only on your phone. Your partner only sees your name, your check-ins, the days you ticked on the path and the invitations you choose to send.
What if my partner doesn't want to use it?
Everything works for one person. Often, understanding what you feel already changes the way you talk — and the invitation stays there for whenever they want to join.
Does it work on iPhone and Android?
Yes. Attune opens in your phone's browser and can be added to your home screen like an app, without the App Store or Google Play.
Does it use artificial intelligence?
No. All the content was carefully written based on concepts used in couples therapy. Nothing you write is sent to artificial intelligence.
How do I get access?
Right after you buy, you get the link by email. Just create your account with the same email you used at checkout and your access is already unlocked. If you chose the bundle, the e-book PDF arrives in the same email.
What's in the e-book?
"Fight Without Losing Each Other" brings together, in 12 chapters, what experts like John and Julie Gottman, Sue Johnson, Marshall Rosenberg and Harville Hendrix have discovered about conflict and connection — explained in plain language, with exercises to do together and the original sources at the end.
What if I don't like it?
You have a 7-day guarantee. Just ask for a refund within that period and you'll get your money back.
Your next conversation can be different.
Start today. It takes less time than your next fight.
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